Rules of dating a sugar daddy
Maybe because he was sort of immature which made me feel even older.
We talked about the age difference once and he said he thought it was hot.
Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.
Otherwise, date someone your own age (I know, God forbid).[quote]I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter.[quote]...preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?
The problem, though, is that such guys are often shy - practically homebodies - so they're hard to find.
In my opinion, what's attractive in a guy in his 40s or older is that he's more likely to have his shit together, personally and professionally.
So what you are saying you only have ten years left to live beacuse you are so shallow that you think if you look 45 - Its not worth living?
You better get a handle on your old age now or you are in for a shock. [quote]I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle Oh, dear - another eldergay trying to convince themselves they look 10 years younger than they are. " comments when I mention that I'm 44 to know that it's true.
Doll, in gay years you're not just an eldergay you're pretty much in God's waiting room.
I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.
It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.
The guy I've been seeing is financially secure (relatively well-off, but certainly not rich).
He's led a pretty full life and has experienced a lot, which means he has good stories to tell and helpful advice to give. The fact that he's been to just about every bar and restaurant in the city means he is now perfectly content spending a quiet evening at home, which suits me just fine.